The latest Kanner-Jugendtelefon comic strip focuses on the consumption of alcohol among young people, providing some guidance to both parents and youngsters.
The comic strips can be found and collected as postcards in different schools, as well as places where children and youngsters frequently visit.
Every comic strip features a hidden letter. At the end, all collected letters can be used to form a particular word, based on which children and youngsters can write a story and win prizes.
See below the article provided by Kanner-Jugendtelefon
A socially acceptable drug
In Luxembourg, like many of its
bordering countries, alcohol is widely consumed and is present at nearly
all occasions from family celebrations at birth to school fêtes and
business lunches to retirement parties.
It is a socially acceptable drug that most people consider to be fairly harmless despite restrictions for its selling and consumption for children under the age of 16 years old. This is why children and young people can be confused by what they are being told about alcohol and what they experience in the adult world around them.
Today most responsible parents and adults who work with children, especially teenagers, want to talk to young people about using alcohol; the good, the bad, and the ugly, but it is very hard to know where to begin. Even if you do not drink alcohol regularly, it is likely that your child will come into contact with it outside the home. Therefore, all young people need some guidance around alcohol and how to look after themselves.
Alcohol affects the way we perceive the
world. For most people one drink will make them more relaxed, less
inhibited and possibly more sociable. But a lot to drink at one time,
or continued consumption without a break, can lead to serious problems. Under the effects of alcohol, young people are more likely to
take risks, have accidents and get into social situations that they
may later regret.
As adults, we generally know these risks by experience, and yet, as a society, we are still unsure about how to talk openly about them. Added to this, young people often see adults as role models and will tend to act on what they see rather than what we tell them. If parents or other responsible adults are telling them not to drink alcohol but are regularly and openly drinking in excess themselves, then their message becomes contradictory and may even have a negative impact.
There is no doubt that teenagers and even pre–teens may feel pressured to drink because they want to fit in with their peer group. This type of pressure is often misinterpreted because they want to drink because their friends are doing it; not necessarily because their friends are making them do it. This is an important part of the change that happens in adolescence, when peer groups often have more influence than parents over teen behaviour. They want to feel accepted, they want to feel good about themselves in the middle of this challenging time, and alcohol can seem to be the answer. But without support and guidance this behaviour can become a form of escapism.
The best advice for parents is to be
open up about alcohol and its effects both positive and negative. If
you drink alcohol in the family, try to always have food at the same
time. This is important because eating before or while you are
drinking slows down the effects of alcohol and makes it easier to
make a judgement about having another drink.
Also encourage them to
drink water in between alcoholic drinks. This can be tricky when you
can only buy water in bottles in Luxembourg. Why not suggest a
reusable water bottle that can be carried discretely in a bag.
to children and young people openly about why you drink alcohol. If
you don’t drink, it is just as important to talk about this subject because they will come into contact with other young people who drink
eventually. If you do drink, you might like to compare it to their
favourite food or a sweet treat like chocolate.
Moderation is key
Everything is okay in
moderation. If your child is older and you suspect he or she is
drinking outside the home, try to encourage them to talk about what
they are drinking, with whom and where. Remind them that different
forms of alcohol will have a different effect and the drinking
environment will also have an influence on that effect.
about keeping themselves safe, staying with trusted friends, and how
they are going to get home afterwards.
It can be helpful to ask teenagers what they would do in imaginary
scenarios that include either themselves or their friends drinking.
Practicing what they would say or do, building their confidence in their ability to handle these situations is a valuable skill. And be prepared to allow your child to always fall back on using you as an excuse, after all blaming your parents for insisting that you are back home by midnight has always been the best escape line in the book.
The KJT Parents Online Help or the KJT Children & Youths Online Help service can offer information, advice or just a non – judgmental person to talk to. If you or your child would like to talk about this or any other subject confidentially and anonymously contact www.kjt.lu